I’m not sure there’s ever been a better time to focus on self-care than right now. Not just because of the fact a global pandemic has changed the face of life as we know it, but also because many of us are faced with a little extra time on our hands. 

And what’s fun to do when we have a moment of free time? Masturbate and or get down and dirty with a partner!

So, ladies, this article is just for you and your ability to come harder than before. Whether you’re jamming solo or vibing with a partner or partners, a blended orgasm is always on the menu. And making yourself and your pleasure a priority is definitely something we believe in. 

Thus, we present to you… the blended orgasm!

What is a Blended Orgasm?

A blended orgasm is when a woman climaxes while having her g-spot and her clitoris stimulated at the same time. 

The g-spot is a magical area found at the anterior part of the vaginal wall. It’s one of a woman’s erogenous zones and, when stimulated, increases a woman’s chance of squirting.

The clitoris too is a wondrous part of the female anatomy found where the inner labia meets. And when stimulated, this sensitive area can produce firework-inducing orgasms.

Having said that, what’s so special about a blended orgasm? Well, it’s not like your average orgasm. It could either feel completely different or it could intensify your ‘normal’ orgasm… both reported to be sheer bliss. 

How To Have a Blended Orgasm

We’ve piqued your interest, haven’t we? Fantastic. Here’s the 411 on how to have a blended orgasm!

Firstly, you’re going to have to be able to stimulate the g-spot and the clitoras simultaneously. Can you enjoy the amazing experience of a blended orgasm solo? You sure can… 

Solo Blended Orgasm

To find your g-spot, you can either use your fingers or a sex toy. We recommend using a sex toy when you’re flying solo however because it could be difficult to reach the g-spot and stimulate it in the correct fashion (the ‘come hither’ motion) when you’re alone. 

Whichever you decide, you’re not going to want to do in and out movements, but rather keep the pressure on the g-spot.

Once you’re all set on the g-spot front, you can start to stimulate your clitoris. If you’re unsure of the best way to get yourself to climax via the clitoris, you can try repetitive circular motions or up and down movements. 

Together, you’re going to be stimulating both areas at the same time in order to achieve a blended orgasm.

Don’t fancy doing all the hard work? A toy such as the Jubilee, a 3-in-1 g-spot and clitoral stimulator, will make your play time a little less heavy lifting and more so about the intense pleasure. This nifty toy stimulates the g-spot and the clitoris in various modes such as licking, sucking, and vibrating. 

Partnered Blended Orgasm

Getting that beautiful blended orgasm with a partner means that you get to sit back and relax while they take you on a glorious journey to O-Town. When you’re with a partner, you have three different options to consider.

Your partner could:

  • Use the hand gesture recommended above (inserted one or more fingers into the vagina toward the belly button and doing the ‘come hither’ motion) while using their other hand or their mouth/tongue to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously.
  • Penetrate you vaginally in the “riding high” position, which gives maximum clitoral stimulation. It involves you lying on your back with your partner on top, his penis angled in such a way that it stimulates the clit with every thrust.
  • Use a sex toy that’s worn by her during sex, such as the Le Couplet. This sex toy stimulates both erogenous zones during penetrative sex, creating intense and various points of pleasure.

Why Should You Have a Blended Orgasm?

We could write an entire thesis on the many benefits of experiencing a blended orgasm, but we thought it’d be interesting to hear from other women on their experience. According to Reddit:

“It feels soooooo good! My toes curl, eyes roll, back arches, and some screams and moans come out that are louder than usual. Mine last about a good 10-15 seconds and after that, my pussy is super sensitive. Even if my boyfriend would blow air on it, I’d flinch because it feels so fragile.” - TanBlur

“It’s super intense and mind blowing and leads to major squirting. This is also a reason that if my husband and I have sex and other people aren in the house, I basically need some sort of gag because I am so damn loud.” - AtwixttheWillows

“Blended orgasms are my favorite. They are always the most satisfying and there are no diminishing returns, everyone is as intense as the one before it.” - anonymous

And so, the women of Reddit have spoken, all in agreement that a blended orgasm is basically the best thing ever. But at the end of the day, everyone experiences pleasure and orgasm differently.

We encourage you to experiment and enjoy your body and find out what works best for you. And while you’re learning all about what makes you tick, you too can share your findings with your partner, making your sex life even better at the same time! It’s simply a win-win!