Fabulous Fellatio - What Men Really Want
Posted on April 21 2018
The term ‘fellatio’ wasn’t used until 1894 when sexual researcher Havelock Ellis used it in one his clinical works on sexuality, and he additionally used the terms to refer to the performing part as “fellator; if female, a fellatrice or fellatrix.” As to where the term ‘blow job’ came from, we’re not quite sure, but it appeared in pulp fiction by the 40s and we haven’t looked back since!
Learning about some subjects can not only be good for you but fun too. More specifically, knowing about fellatio can not only be educational but make your personal relationship more exciting and fulfilling. Still, despite the fact that it is 2018, many of you ladies out there have never even heard of fellatio let alone know how to properly fellate a fella.
Fellatio has a natural power dynamic to it that works both ways. If you like being submissive to your man then kneel before him and please him. If you like being in control and you feel powerful then put him on his back and crawl over him and express yourself. No matter what, use your hands a lot because it will add to the overall experience.
If you like variety there are many different positions you can try. You can work in some light S&M by blindfolding him and tying him down before you do your thing. Engage in a little mutual nipple-pinching or spanking if you like.
While giving your man a surprise “hummer” as they say can be a good thing, remember that hygiene is a good thing too. Make sure your man washes everywhere you expect to have your face, mouth, tongue and fingers. If your man is uncircumcised this is especially important because the buildup of dirt and bacteria can result in an unpleasant odor and taste. If you’re worried, girls, then suggest a sexy shower and take the matter into your own hands.
Some women enjoy rubbing their face over their man’s crotch and others like kissing their way down to it or even kissing thighs as a form of foreplay. There are also many tricks and options involved with fellatio. The basics, however, can be broken down into some simple steps: